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Rebecca
Rebecca
Talk to me about chronic illness or fertility
Long COVID · chronic pain · IVF · surrogacy
Dave G.
Dave
Talk to me about relapse & recovery
Bipolar · addiction · relapse
Ellen T.
Ellen T.
Talk to me about grief while life keeps going
Grief · caregiving · sandwich generation · high performance
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Tools and approaches from people who've been through it

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Rolfing
Used by Rebecca · Long COVID
🤲
Craniosacral therapy
Used by Rebecca · nervous system
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Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT)
Used by Dave · bipolar recovery
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Mood tracking
Used by Dave · pattern recognition
🏋️
Daily training (non-negotiable)
Used by Harry · discipline foundation
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Finding the Words
Used by Ellen · grief language
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Deliberate reading
Used by Harry · identity construction
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Cooking her mother's recipes
Used by Ellen · staying connected
Rebecca
Rebecca
Long COVID · chronic pain · IVF · surrogacy
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Rebecca

Talk to me about chronic illness or fertility

Long COVID · vaccine injury · chronic pain · IVF · surrogacy · post-traumatic growth

Went from bedbound with a vaccine injury — couldn’t care for her newborn, could barely leave her room — to recovering, preparing for a second child, and founding HealingVrse. If your body stopped cooperating at the worst possible time, she gets it.

What she can help with
Long COVID
Vaccine injury recovery
Chronic pain and migraines
IVF while chronically ill
Surrogacy
Burnout and returning to work
Nervous system dysregulation
Identity after illness
Post-traumatic growth
Holding life goals through a long recovery
Her story

In 2021, Rebecca was a founder and new mother when a vaccine injury disrupted her autonomic nervous system overnight. She couldn't sleep, couldn't function, could barely leave her room. And it hit at the worst possible moment — she had goals, a life she was building, and a second child she wanted. Suddenly she was trying to get well enough to pursue IVF without destabilising a recovery that was already fragile, knowing the process might make her sicker, and somehow holding all of that at once.

"You have to hold two truths at once — keep looking for solutions, and take the pressure off healing at the same time."

What followed was a long, non-linear recovery. She figured out that healing is multidisciplinary — physical, mental, spiritual, all at once. TMS and the mind-body connection gave her agency when nothing else had. Breathwork, elimination protocols, Western and Eastern medicine in parallel. But the thing she'd tell anyone at the start is self-compassion — not as a nice idea but as the actual foundation everything else has to be built on. She came back slowly. And she believes post-traumatic growth is real — the hard path doesn't just end in recovery, it ends in a version of you that couldn't have existed without it.

Rebecca is not a therapist or medical professional. This is peer support from someone who has been through it.

What helped her
💆
Rolfing
structural bodywork
🤲
Craniosacral therapy
nervous system regulation
🧘
Pacing protocols
energy management
🫁
Coherent breathwork
nervous system reset
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TMS / transcranial magnetic stimulation
rewiring the brain
🔬
Functional medicine
root cause testing
🧬
Functional neurology
brain-body communication
🥩
Carnivore elimination protocol
inflammation & brain fog
💪
Isometric exercise program
rebuilding without crashing
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Acupuncture
nervous system & pain relief
🎯
Exposure practices
gradual return to life
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Curable app & group therapy
mind-body pain approach
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Writing / Substack
processing through expression
🛋️
Therapy — long term, right person
identity rebuild
📖
Post-traumatic growth studies
turning the hard path into meaning
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Surrogacy & grief of changing the plan
fertility journey

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Dave G.
Dave
Bipolar · addiction · relapse
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Dave G.

Talk to me about relapse & recovery

Bipolar · Mental Health · Addiction

42 years undiagnosed. Wrong medications, addiction, a manic episode that nearly derailed everything. Dave found his way to stability — and knows exactly what didn't work along the way.

What he can help with
Bipolar — undiagnosed for decades
Addiction and relapse recovery (70 days in)
Rehab — what it's actually like and what works
Getting sober after using to cope with mental illness
Wrong medication triggering crisis
Relationship strain from mental illness

Peer support from lived experience — not medical or clinical care.

His story

Dave spent 42 years without a diagnosis. In that time he tried medications that made things worse, developed an addiction as a coping mechanism, and experienced a full manic episode triggered by the wrong prescription.

"I wish someone had told me sooner what I'm telling you now."

He's now stable, correctly medicated, and using dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) that gave him somewhere to put the relationship strain. He knows what the wrong path looks like — and what it costs you before you find the right one.

What helped him
💊
Correct diagnosis + medication
foundational
🛋️
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT)
emotion regulation
📊
Mood tracking
pattern recognition
🤝
AA / 12-step work
addiction recovery
🔄
Relapse protocol
getting back up
🧠
Cognitive behavioural tools
thought patterns

Connect with Dave

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Ellen T.
Kept showing up while losing her mom
Work, kids, caregiving — all at once
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Ellen T.

Talk to me about grief while life keeps going

Grief · Caregiving · Sandwich Generation · High Performance

If you lost someone and the world didn't stop to let you grieve, she gets it.

What she can help with
Grief you can't show at work
Physically caring for a dying parent
Parenting through grief — holding it together for your kids
Finding language for grief
Staying present without numbing
Staying connected to someone you've lost
Her story

Ellen's mom was bed-bound for a year and a half before she died. Ellen was the one showing up — learning how to give physical care, doing things she never imagined doing — while also raising her own kids and holding down a demanding senior job. There was no pause button. She had to be present for everyone at once, and she did it without numbing out. No alcohol, no checking out — just showing up raw.

"I'm not on the other side of it. I'm just learning how to carry it without it carrying me."

A work coach she trusted told her something that stuck: "They care about you, but they can't give you a pass forever. You have to behave like a professional." It was exactly what she needed to hear. She stopped bringing grief to work and started taking it on walks — first talking to her mom out loud, then weaning off podcasts, then just listening. Birds, wind, silence. It became a practice. She's still in it, still figuring it out. If your world didn't stop when someone you loved was dying, she gets that particular kind of exhausting.

What helped her
📖
Finding the Words — Colin Campbell
a grief book that gave language to the loss
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Working with a grief counsellor
learning to regulate emotions at work
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Mindful walking — no phone, no podcasts
just listening to birds; started as talking to her mom, became a meditation
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Cooking her mother's recipes
staying connected through food
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Cutting out sweets
noticing comfort food patterns, cleaning up her diet
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Choosing not to numb
no alcohol, no substances — staying present through the hard parts

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Peer support from lived experience — not medical or clinical care.

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Peer support from lived experience — not medical or clinical care.

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Her full healing stack
Rolfing
structural bodywork
Craniosacral therapy
nervous system regulation
Pacing protocols
energy management
🧠
TMS / mind-body connection
mind phase
🔬
Functional medicine
root cause testing
Carnivore elimination protocol
inflammation & brain fog
Isometric exercise program
rebuilding without crashing
Therapy — long term, right person
identity rebuild
Post-traumatic growth work
soul phase
✓ Connected — full healing stack below
Rebecca's context — read before your call
Long COVID Vaccine injury Nervous system New mother Bedbound recovery Post-traumatic growth IVF
Prepare for your call
Key insights from her journey
Long COVID + vaccine injury hit while she was a new mother — she navigated physical and emotional collapse simultaneously.
Recovery started with structural bodywork (Rolfing + Craniosacral) before anything else — nervous system had to stabilise first.
Pacing was critical — energy management is a foundation, not a later-stage consideration.
Identity had to be rebuilt alongside the physical — she'll understand if you feel like a different person.
🧠 Mind
TMS / mind-body connection
The work that changed everything she understood about chronic illness. Symptoms that feel physical are being generated and maintained by the brain. Working with a TMS therapist shifted her recovery more than any protocol she tried.
Therapy — long-term, with the right person
She had to unlearn every protection mechanism she'd built. The right therapist held space without trying to fix it or rush past it. Three therapists before she found the right one — the third had lived through something chronic herself.
Books and podcasts — as a curriculum
Specifically chosen to rebuild how she understood her nervous system. Not distraction — education. The Body Keeps the Score. Curable app. Both in the Stabilize phase.
💙 Body
Rolfing
Structural bodywork that helped her nervous system find a new baseline in the acute period. Her body had been in a constant protective state — the structural work gave her nervous system a new reference point for what relaxed actually felt like.
Craniosacral therapy
Alongside Rolfing — both essential in the acute period. Very gentle, works with the central nervous system directly. Some weeks it was the only thing she could tolerate. Her practitioner specialised in post-viral patients.
Pacing protocol
The single most important thing for post-exertional malaise. Understanding energy envelopes, building without crashing. Heart rate monitor was the game-changer — staying under threshold stopped the crashes almost immediately.
Isometric exercise program
Building exercise around PEM — rebuilding strength without triggering crashes. Isometric holds, no cardio, no eccentric loading. Six months in and it's working.
Functional medicine
The tests that finally gave answers. Organic acids, comprehensive panels, looking at root causes rather than symptoms. Three things she'd never been tested for — changed what she was addressing and how.
Carnivore diet phase
Used as an elimination protocol in the acute phase. Strict carnivore for 90 days — reduced inflammation and brain fog faster than anything else she tried. Not permanent — a tool for a specific period.
✨ Soul
Post-traumatic growth work
Learning to see what the illness gave as well as what it took. Not toxic positivity — a genuine reorientation of what the experience meant and who she became through it.
Surrogacy and grief of changing the plan
Choosing surrogacy after five rounds of IVF on a compromised body. The grief came in waves. Choosing surrogacy was the right decision and it was also a loss. Both things were true at the same time.
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30 days with Rebecca

Daily async support. She responds within 24 hours, every day.

Beta pricing
30-day messaging access
Secure payment → WhatsApp details sent instantly
$75per month · usually $150/mo
Pay $25 → Start messaging
Secure · Cancel any month
Her full healing stack
Rolfing
structural bodywork
Craniosacral therapy
nervous system regulation
Pacing protocols
energy management
🧠
TMS / mind-body connection
mind phase
🔬
Functional medicine
root cause testing
Carnivore elimination protocol
inflammation & brain fog
Isometric exercise program
rebuilding without crashing
Therapy — long term, right person
identity rebuild
Post-traumatic growth work
soul phase
✓ Connected — full healing stack below
How messaging works
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Pay securely via Stripe — takes 30 seconds.
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Message Rebecca on WhatsApp when you're ready. She responds within 24 hours of your first message — your window starts from there.
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Send your first message any time. Rebecca responds within 24 hours, 7 days a week, for 30 days.
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After 30 days, you'll get the option to renew. No auto-billing — you choose.
🔒 Private and anonymous. No personal numbers shared. Messages are between you and your guide only.
📌 Rebecca's pinned context
Her story — key points
Long COVID + vaccine injury hit while she was a new mother — she navigated physical and emotional collapse simultaneously.
Recovery started with structural bodywork before anything else — nervous system had to stabilise first.
Identity had to be rebuilt alongside the physical — she understands if you feel like a different person.
🧠 Mind
TMS / mind-body connection — Symptoms that feel physical are generated by the brain. Working with a TMS therapist shifted her recovery more than any protocol.
Therapy — long-term, with the right person — Three therapists before she found the right one. The third had lived through something chronic herself.
Books & podcasts as a curriculum — The Body Keeps the Score. Curable app. Not distraction — education.
💙 Body
Rolfing — Structural bodywork to find a new baseline. Gave her nervous system a reference point for what relaxed actually felt like.
Craniosacral therapy — Alongside Rolfing, first six months. Practitioner specialised in post-viral patients.
Pacing protocol — Heart rate monitor stopped the crashes. Staying under threshold was the game-changer.
Isometric exercise program — Building strength without PEM. No cardio, no eccentric loading.
Functional medicine — Organic acids + comprehensive panels. Found three things never tested for.
Carnivore diet phase — 90 days strict, reduced inflammation faster than anything else. A tool, not a lifestyle.
✨ Soul
Post-traumatic growth work — Not toxic positivity. A genuine reorientation of what the experience meant and who she became through it.
Surrogacy — grief of changing the plan — Five rounds of IVF on a compromised body. Choosing surrogacy was the right decision and also a loss. Both true at once.
Rebecca
Rebecca
● Active today
Hi — I'm really glad you reached out. I've been where you are, and I know how isolating it can feel when no one around you really gets it. What's been the hardest part lately?
Today, 9:12am
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Welcome to Rebecca's Room

Long COVID recovery · 3.2k members

📌 Rebecca's story & stack
Her story — key points
Long COVID + vaccine injury as a new mother — navigated physical and emotional collapse simultaneously.
Recovery started with structural bodywork — nervous system had to stabilise before anything else.
Pacing was the foundation, not a later-stage fix. Identity had to be rebuilt alongside the physical.
🧠 Mind
TMS / mind-body connection — Symptoms that feel physical are generated by the brain. Shifted her recovery more than any protocol she tried.
Therapy — long-term, with the right person — Three therapists before she found the right one. The third had lived through something chronic herself.
Books & podcasts as a curriculum — The Body Keeps the Score. Curable app. Not distraction — education.
💙 Body
Rolfing — Structural bodywork to find a new baseline. Gave her nervous system a reference point for what relaxed actually felt like.
Craniosacral therapy — Alongside Rolfing, first six months. Practitioner specialised in post-viral patients.
Pacing protocol — Heart rate monitor stopped the crashes. Staying under threshold was the game-changer.
Isometric exercise program — Rebuilding strength without triggering PEM. No cardio, no eccentric loading.
Functional medicine — Organic acids + comprehensive panels. Found three things never tested for.
Carnivore diet phase — 90 days strict. Reduced inflammation faster than anything else. A tool, not a lifestyle.
✨ Soul
Post-traumatic growth work — Not toxic positivity. A genuine reorientation of what the experience meant and who she became through it.
Surrogacy — grief of changing the plan — Five rounds of IVF on a compromised body. Choosing surrogacy was the right decision and also a loss. Both true at once.
Rebecca
Rebecca
Today
Reminder for anyone in the acute phase: the goal isn't to feel better tomorrow. It's to avoid making things worse today. Pacing is not rest — it's precision. You're not being lazy. You're being strategic.
JK
Jamie K.
2h ago
Week 6 update: crashed badly on Tuesday but I caught it faster than I used to. Rebecca's pacing sheet has been the most useful single document I've ever had.
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Sarah L.
5h ago
Does anyone else feel like the hardest part isn't the symptoms — it's explaining to people around you why you can't just push through? Looking for how others handle this.
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His full healing stack
Correct diagnosis + medication
foundational
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT)
emotion regulation
Mood tracking
pattern recognition
🪜
AA / 12-step work
addiction recovery
🔄
Relapse protocol
getting back up
Cognitive behavioural tools
thought patterns
✓ Connected — full healing stack below
Dave's context — read before your call
Bipolar42 years undiagnosed AddictionWrong medication ManiaRecovery
Key insights from his journey
42 years without a diagnosis — he understands the frustration of knowing something is wrong but having no framework for it.
Wrong medication triggered mania — he can speak to medication decisions and the warning signs to watch for.
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) was the turning point — practical tools for emotion regulation when everything felt out of control.
Mood tracking gave him the data to understand his own patterns before anyone else could see them.
🧠 Mind
Proper diagnosis from a qualified professional
The single most important thing. Spent years going to different doctors with no clear answer. Being on the wrong medication launched him into mania. The psychiatrist who gave him the bipolar II diagnosis explained why everything he'd tried had failed.
Therapy — finding the right person, not the right letters
Tried CBT, DBT, all of it — nothing came close to finding the right person. His therapist doesn't have a fancy modality. She just lets him say the things he'd been carrying for years.
Books and podcasts — as a curriculum
Not content consumption for distraction — specifically chosen to rebuild how he understood himself. The Divided Mind by Sarno. Lost Connections by Johann Hari. Read slowly, with a pen.
💙 Body
Accountable.com
A platform where people in recovery become counselors. Voluntarily does a breathalyzer once a day — not about surveillance, about putting another layer of resistance between himself and an urge. After month 8 it stopped feeling like surveillance and started feeling like proof.
✨ Soul
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT)
Practical skills for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness. The shift was having actual tools rather than just white-knuckling it.
Group therapy
There's something that happens in a group you can't replicate one-on-one — parallel processing. Someone else tells their story and it makes you understand something about yourself you couldn't access alone.
Alcoholics Anonymous — even if you're not an alcoholic
You don't need to be an alcoholic to sit in. The psychology, the structure, the accountability — it's a multi-tool. The honesty in that room was unlike anything he'd experienced.
Book clubs for heavy subjects
A structured way to go deep with others on things that matter. Reading Man's Search for Meaning together over three weeks opened the most honest conversation he'd had in years.
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Daily async support. He responds within 24 hours, every day.

Beta pricing
30-day messaging access
Secure payment → WhatsApp details sent instantly
$75per month · usually $150/mo
Pay $25 → Start messaging
Secure · Cancel any month
His full healing stack
Correct diagnosis + medication
foundational
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT)
emotion regulation
Mood tracking
pattern recognition
🪜
AA / 12-step work
addiction recovery
🔄
Relapse protocol
getting back up
Cognitive behavioural tools
thought patterns
✓ Connected — full healing stack below
How messaging works
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Pay securely via Stripe — takes 30 seconds.
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You'll receive a private Telegram link. Dave uses a dedicated @HealingVrse handle — completely private, no personal numbers shared.
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Send your first message any time. Dave responds within 24 hours, 7 days a week, for 30 days.
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After 30 days, you'll get the option to renew. No auto-billing — you choose.
🔒 Private and anonymous. No personal numbers shared. Messages are between you and your guide only.
📌 Dave's pinned context
His story — key points
42 years without a diagnosis — he understands the frustration of knowing something is wrong but having no framework for it.
Wrong medication triggered mania — he can speak to medication decisions and what to watch for.
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) was the turning point — practical tools for emotion regulation when everything felt out of control.
🧠 Mind
Proper diagnosis — The psychiatrist who gave him bipolar II explained why everything he'd tried had failed. Changed the direction of everything.
Therapy — right person not right letters — Tried CBT, DBT, all of it. Nothing came close to finding the right person.
Books as curriculum — The Divided Mind. Lost Connections. Read slowly, with a pen.
💙 Body
Accountable.com — Daily breathalyzer. Not surveillance — an extra layer of resistance between himself and an urge. After month 8 it became proof, not punishment.
✨ Soul
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) — Practical tools for emotion regulation and distress tolerance.
Group therapy — Parallel processing. Someone else's story unlocking something in you that you couldn't access alone.
AA — even if you're not an alcoholic — The psychology and accountability is a multi-tool. The honesty in that room was unlike anything.
Book clubs for heavy subjects — Man's Search for Meaning with a group. The most honest conversation he'd had in years.
Dave
Dave G.
● Active today
Hey, I'm glad you're here. I know it takes something to reach out. I've spent a long time figuring this out and I wish I'd had someone to talk to earlier. What's going on?
Today, 11:24am
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Mental health & bipolar · 22 members

📌 Dave's story & stack
His story — key points
42 years undiagnosed — he understands the frustration of knowing something is wrong but having no framework for it.
Wrong medication triggered mania — he can speak to medication decisions and warning signs.
Now stable. Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) gave him a container for the relationship strain instead of letting it bleed into everything.
🧠 Mind
Proper diagnosis — The psychiatrist who gave him bipolar II explained why everything he'd tried had failed. Changed the direction of everything.
Therapy — right person not right letters — Tried CBT, DBT, all of it. Nothing came close to finding the right person.
Books as curriculum — The Divided Mind. Lost Connections. Read slowly, with a pen.
💙 Body
Accountable.com — Daily breathalyzer. Not surveillance — an extra layer of resistance between himself and an urge. After month 8 it became proof, not punishment.
✨ Soul
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) — Practical tools for emotion regulation and distress tolerance.
Group therapy — Parallel processing. Someone else's story unlocking something in you that you couldn't access alone.
AA — even if you're not an alcoholic — The psychology and accountability is a multi-tool. The honesty in that room was unlike anything.
Book clubs for heavy subjects — Man's Search for Meaning with a group. The most honest conversation he'd had in years.
Dave
Dave G.
Yesterday
Something I wish someone had told me: the wrong medication isn't a failure. It's data. Every wrong turn taught me something about what my brain actually needed. Don't let setbacks read as proof it won't work.
MR
Marcus R.
3h ago
Third psychiatrist finally got it right. Three years of being told it was "just depression." I'm angry and relieved at the same time. Anyone else been here?
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Her full healing stack
90-second emotion rule
foundational shift
Catching the spiral in real time
awareness practice
Body-first settling
regulate before you solve
🔁
Repetition of safety signals
proving new data to your system
🪞
Separating past blueprint from now
identity and present reality
📚
Nervous system education
understanding the biology
Mindset work — after the body feels safe
top-down, in the right order
Naming and releasing emotions
feel it, don't build a life in it
Zooming out from past data
separating blueprint from present reality
✓ Connected — full healing stack below
Jenny's context — read before your call
Nervous system Emotional stress Anxiety Thought loops Abundance blocks Burnout
Prepare for your call
Key insights from her journey
The disconnect she kept experiencing — believing abundance mentally but not feeling it — led her to the root: the nervous system blueprint.
Emotions move through the body in 90 seconds. Everything beyond that is the mind re-running the story.
You cannot think your way to safety. The system needs new evidence, not new ideas — and that takes repetition.
She does not believe in bypassing emotions — they are signals. The practice is to feel them without building a life inside them.
Her full stack
90-second emotion rule
Jill Bolte Taylor's research: emotions run through the body in 90 seconds. Anything beyond that is the narrative loop. This single shift changed how Jenny moves through hard feelings.
Catching the spiral
A real-time awareness check: is this the actual emotion, or am I now in the story? The interruption itself is the practice.
Body-first settling
Nothing she decided in a dysregulated state was ever aligned. The practice: let the body come down before solving anything.
Repetition of safety signals
Reminding herself — I am okay right now, nothing is actually wrong in this exact moment — done daily, in small ways. The nervous system needs proof, not promises.
Zooming out from past data
Recognising that the nervous system reacts based on past experiences, not current reality. Separating the blueprint from the present moment.
Naming emotions without driving the narrative
Observe, name it ("I'm really angry right now"), then stop. Don't re-justify. Don't keep proving it to yourself. Feel it, respect it, don't live in it.
Mindset work — in the right order
Still believes in abundance and growth thinking. But only once the nervous system feels safe enough to receive it. Top-down approaches only land when the foundation is stable.
Nervous system education
Understanding the biology changed everything. The brain's job is protection — not your happiness, your dreams, or your purpose. Once she stopped fighting it, she could start working with it.
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What to expect
Response within 24h Up to 20 messages · 3 days Direct Telegram No judgement
How Jenny shows up
She responds from lived experience, not theory — she has been in the loop herself.
She will help you notice when you are in the emotion vs. in the story.
She does not believe in toxic positivity or forced reframes — she will meet you where you are.
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Harry's context — read before your call
Social anxietyIdentity Small town backgroundDisciplineIntellectual growth
Key insights from his journey
Built identity deliberately, not discovered it — he'll challenge the idea that you need to "find yourself."
Went back to university as a mature student — BA in History, MA in Political History. The academic environment transformed him socially and intellectually.
Discipline as foundation — enjoyment comes after, not before. He'll be honest about how hard the early period is.
Engineered intellectual friction — debate nights, diverse relationships, strategic environmental upgrades.
🧠 Mind
Going back to university as a mature student
BA in History, then MA in Political History. He worked exceptionally hard and the results reflected that. Academically, socially, intellectually — he came out of his shell. That period did more for his self-esteem than anything before it.
Reading widely and extensively
Theology → evolutionary biology → psychology → philosophy → politics. For a long time he didn't enjoy reading — it felt slow and effortful. Now it's one of his favourite parts of the day. Enjoyment followed discipline, not the other way around.
Online lectures and podcasts
Anything that challenged how he thinks. A supplement to reading, not a replacement.
💙 Body
Daily training — non-negotiable
Built strength and health not because he loved training, but because he needed the psychological edge it gave him. Resilience in the body translates to resilience in the mind. He doesn't particularly enjoy exercising — he respects what it produces and chooses discipline over preference.
Highly controlled diet
Whole foods, high protein, no junk. The impact is profound — everybody knows this deep down. Food as fuel, not comfort. Let your hair down occasionally, but health is wealth.
✨ Soul
Engineered intellectual friction
A regular debate night. Forced himself to articulate positions clearly, defend them under pressure, take intellectual heat, and change his mind publicly when necessary. Actively sought out people from different races, political perspectives, religious beliefs, and socio-economic backgrounds. Growth accelerated when he stopped surrounding himself with agreement.
Strategic environmental upgrades
Cutting ties with habits, people, and environments that reinforced the old version of him and fostered complacency. Not turning his back on friends — occupying his time more consciously and prioritising it effectively.
Protected thinking time (non-negotiable)
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His story — key points
Built identity deliberately, not discovered it — he'll challenge the idea that you need to "find yourself."
Went back to university as a mature student — the academic environment transformed him socially and intellectually.
Discipline as foundation — enjoyment comes after, not before. He'll be honest about how hard the early period is.
🧠 Mind
University as a mature student — BA + MA in History. Came out of his shell academically, socially, intellectually. More for his self-esteem than anything else.
Reading widely — Theology → biology → psychology → philosophy → politics. Enjoyment followed discipline.
Online lectures and podcasts — Anything that challenged how he thinks. Supplement to reading, not replacement.
💙 Body
Daily training (non-negotiable) — Not for aesthetics — for the psychological edge. Resilience in body translates to resilience in mind.
Highly controlled diet — Whole foods, high protein. Food as fuel not comfort.
✨ Soul
Engineered intellectual friction — Regular debate nights. Sought out people with different backgrounds, beliefs, politics. Growth stopped when he was surrounded by agreement.
Strategic environmental upgrades — Cutting ties with habits and people that reinforced the old version. Conscious time allocation.
Protected thinking time — Daily. No phone. No noise. No passive consumption.
Harry
Harry Moles
● Active today
Good to have you here. Fair warning — I'll be honest with you, not just supportive. I've been where you are and I know what actually helped. What's the thing you most want to change?
Today, 2:41pm
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Identity & growth · 47 members

📌 Harry's story & stack
His story — key points
Small town, social anxiety, no identity — world expanded in his late teens and he wasn't equipped for it.
Built himself deliberately: training first, reading, then university as a mature student (BA + MA in History).
Enjoyment followed discipline, not the other way around — he'll be direct about how hard the early period is.
🧠 Mind
University as a mature student — BA in History, then MA in Political History. He worked exceptionally hard and the results reflected that. Academically, socially, intellectually — he came out of his shell. That period did more for his self-esteem than anything before it.
Reading widely and extensively — Theology → evolutionary biology → psychology → philosophy → politics. For a long time he didn't enjoy reading. Enjoyment followed discipline, not the other way around.
Online lectures and podcasts — Anything that challenged how he thinks. A supplement to reading, not a replacement.
💙 Body
Daily training — non-negotiable — Built strength and health not because he loved training, but because he needed the psychological edge it gave him. Resilience in the body translates to resilience in the mind.
Highly controlled diet — Whole foods, high protein, no junk. Food as fuel, not comfort. Let your hair down occasionally, but health is wealth.
✨ Soul
Engineered intellectual friction — A regular debate night. Forced himself to articulate positions clearly, defend them under pressure. Actively sought out people from different backgrounds and beliefs. Growth accelerated when he stopped surrounding himself with agreement.
Strategic environmental upgrades — Cutting ties with habits, people, and environments that reinforced the old version of him. Not turning his back on friends — occupying his time more consciously.
Protected thinking time (non-negotiable) — Every day: uninterrupted time to read, think, and write. No phone. No noise. No passive consumption.
Harry
Harry Moles
Today
Week one of anything is the lie detector. Most people quit before their body or mind has actually adapted. The discomfort you're feeling in week one is not a signal to stop. It's just the cost of entry.
TK
Tom K.
1h ago
Started the reading habit 3 weeks ago. Still don't love it. But I'm doing it. 15 minutes a day. Surprised how much has already shifted in how I think about things.
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Ellen's context — read before your call
GriefSenior leadership Loss of motherLegacyEmotions at work
Key insights from her journey
Grieving in a high-performance role — she understands the pressure to function while falling apart inside.
Somatic work (Rolfing) was where healing started — grief lived in her body before it lived in words.
Channeling loss into a legacy project — not as a bypass, but as a form of continuation and meaning.
Still in progress — she won't give you a tidy resolution. She'll give you honest company instead.
🧠 Mind
Finding the Words by Colin Campbell
The book that finally gave her language for what grief actually feels like. Not prescriptive — honest. She's given it to everyone she knows who has lost someone. "I didn't know how much I needed someone to find the words until I read this."
Working with a grief counselor on emotions at work
Not just processing the loss — specifically working on how grief shows up in professional settings. Learning to recognise when she was dysregulated before it derailed a meeting or a decision. Grief doesn't clock out.
Channeling grief into legacy — building the company her mother believed in
The cookware company wasn't just a business idea — it was her mother's dream. Making it real became a way of grieving with purpose. Some days it's the only thing that gets her to her desk.
💙 Body
Exercise — showing up even when she didn't want to
Not training for anything. Just moving. The one part of her day that felt like she was doing something for herself that wasn't about the grief or the company. Her body needed somewhere to put all of it.
Cutting out sweets — noticing coping patterns
Grief made her reach for comfort food constantly. Cutting back on sugar wasn't about weight — it was about noticing what she was reaching for and making a more conscious choice.
✨ Soul
Rolfing
Grief lived in her body before it lived in her words. Rolfing gave her nervous system a container when she couldn't find one anywhere else.
Cooking as connection — continuing her mother's traditions
Her mother cooked constantly. Making her recipes, using her pots, cooking for people her mother loved — it keeps her present in a way nothing else does. The kitchen is where she feels closest to her.
Letting grief have its place without letting it take over
Suppressing grief at work just meant it leaked out sideways. Giving it space intentionally — in sessions, in writing — meant it didn't ambush her.
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Her story — key points
Grieving in a high-performance role — she understands the pressure to function while falling apart inside.
Somatic work (Rolfing) was where healing started — grief lived in her body before it lived in words.
Channeling loss into a legacy project — not as a bypass, but as a form of continuation and meaning.
🧠 Mind
Finding the Words by Colin Campbell — Language for what grief actually feels like. She gives it to everyone who has lost someone.
Grief counselor — emotions at work — How grief shows up in professional settings. Recognising dysregulation before it derails a meeting.
Legacy project — her mother's company — Grieving with purpose. Some days it's the only thing that gets her to her desk.
💙 Body
Exercise (even when she didn't want to) — Just moving. The one part of the day that wasn't about the grief or the company.
Cutting out sweets — Noticing the coping patterns. Not about weight — about conscious choice.
✨ Soul
Rolfing — Grief lived in her body before words. Gave her nervous system a container when nothing else did.
Cooking her mother's recipes — The kitchen is where she feels closest to her.
Letting grief have its place — Intentional space meant it didn't leak sideways or ambush her at work.
Ellen
Ellen T.
● Active today
I'm glad you're here. Grief is one of those things no one really prepares you for — and then it arrives and you're expected to keep functioning. I've been there. How are you doing today?
Today, 8:55am
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Grief & loss · 31 members

📌 Ellen's story & stack
Her story — key points
Lost her mother while in a demanding senior leadership role — no space professionally or culturally to grieve.
Grief lived in her body first — Rolfing gave her nervous system a container when nothing else did.
Building her mother's legacy business became its own form of healing — purpose as continuation, not escape.
🧠 Mind
Finding the Words by Colin Campbell — The book that finally gave her language for what grief actually feels like. Not prescriptive — honest. She's given it to everyone she knows who has lost someone.
Working with a grief counselor on emotions at work — Not just processing the loss — specifically working on how grief shows up in professional settings. Grief doesn't clock out.
Channeling grief into legacy — building the company her mother believed in — The cookware company wasn't just a business idea — it was her mother's dream. Making it real became a way of grieving with purpose.
💙 Body
Exercise — showing up even when she didn't want to — Not training for anything. Just moving. The one part of her day that felt like she was doing something for herself that wasn't about the grief or the company.
Cutting out sweets — noticing coping patterns — Grief made her reach for comfort food constantly. Cutting back on sugar wasn't about weight — it was about noticing what she was reaching for and making a more conscious choice.
✨ Soul
Rolfing — Grief lived in her body before it lived in her words. Rolfing gave her nervous system a container when she couldn't find one anywhere else.
Cooking as connection — continuing her mother's traditions — Her mother cooked constantly. Making her recipes, using her pots, cooking for people her mother loved — it keeps her present in a way nothing else does.
Letting grief have its place without letting it take over — Suppressing grief at work just meant it leaked out sideways. Giving it space intentionally meant it didn't ambush her.
Ellen
Ellen T.
Today
Grief doesn't have a schedule. People will expect you to be "over it" by some point that makes them comfortable. You don't owe anyone a timeline. You do owe yourself the space to actually process it.
AP
Anna P.
4h ago
Back at work after two weeks. Everyone is being kind but I can feel them watching to see if I'm "back to normal." There's no normal to go back to. Has anyone navigated this?
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Long COVIDVaccine injuryNervous system New motherBedbound recoveryPost-traumatic growthIVF
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Long COVID + vaccine injury hit while she was a new mother — she navigated physical and emotional collapse simultaneously.
Recovery started with structural bodywork (Rolfing + Craniosacral) before anything else — nervous system had to stabilise first.
Pacing was critical — energy management is a foundation, not a later-stage consideration.
Identity had to be rebuilt alongside the physical — she'll understand if you feel like a different person.
🧠 Mind
TMS / mind-body connection — Symptoms that feel physical are generated and maintained by the brain. Working with a TMS therapist shifted her recovery more than any protocol she tried.
Therapy — long-term, with the right person — Three therapists before she found the right one. The third had lived through something chronic herself.
Books and podcasts as a curriculum — The Body Keeps the Score. Curable app. Not distraction — education.
💙 Body
Rolfing — Structural bodywork. Gave her nervous system a reference point for what relaxed actually felt like.
Craniosacral therapy — Alongside Rolfing in the acute period. Practitioner specialised in post-viral patients.
Pacing protocol — Heart rate monitor stopped the crashes. Staying under threshold was the game-changer.
Isometric exercise program — Rebuilding strength without PEM. No cardio, no eccentric loading.
Functional medicine — Organic acids + comprehensive panels. Found three things never tested for.
Carnivore diet phase — 90 days strict. Reduced inflammation faster than anything else. A tool, not a lifestyle.
✨ Soul
Post-traumatic growth work — Not toxic positivity. A genuine reorientation of what the experience meant and who she became through it.
Surrogacy — grief of changing the plan — Five rounds of IVF on a compromised body. Choosing surrogacy was the right decision and also a loss. Both true at once.
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Bipolar42 years undiagnosed AddictionWrong medicationManiaRecovery
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42 years without a diagnosis — he understands the frustration of knowing something is wrong but having no framework for it.
Wrong medication triggered mania — he can speak to medication decisions and the warning signs to watch for.
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) was the turning point — practical tools for emotion regulation when everything felt out of control.
Mood tracking gave him the data to understand his own patterns before anyone else could see them.
🧠 Mind
Proper diagnosis — The psychiatrist who gave him bipolar II explained why everything he'd tried had failed. Changed the direction of everything.
Therapy — right person not right letters — Tried CBT, DBT, all of it. Nothing came close to finding the right person.
Books as curriculum — The Divided Mind. Lost Connections. Read slowly, with a pen.
💙 Body
Accountable.com — Daily breathalyzer. Not surveillance — an extra layer of resistance between himself and an urge. After month 8 it became proof, not punishment.
✨ Soul
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) — Practical tools for emotion regulation and distress tolerance.
Group therapy — Parallel processing. Someone else's story unlocking something in you that you couldn't access alone.
AA — even if you're not an alcoholic — The psychology and accountability is a multi-tool. The honesty in that room was unlike anything.
Book clubs for heavy subjects — Man's Search for Meaning with a group. The most honest conversation he'd had in years.
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Harry responds within 24 hours, every day
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Harry's context — read before your call
Social anxietyIdentity Small town backgroundDisciplineIntellectual growth
Prepare for your call
Key insights from his journey
Built identity deliberately, not discovered it — he'll challenge the idea that you need to "find yourself."
Went back to university as a mature student — BA in History, MA in Political History. Transformed him socially and intellectually.
Discipline as foundation — enjoyment comes after, not before. He'll be honest about how hard the early period is.
Engineered intellectual friction — debate nights, diverse relationships, strategic environmental upgrades.
🧠 Mind
University as a mature student — BA in History, then MA in Political History. Came out of his shell academically, socially, intellectually.
Reading widely — Theology → biology → psychology → philosophy → politics. Enjoyment followed discipline, not the other way around.
Online lectures and podcasts — Anything that challenged how he thinks. A supplement to reading, not a replacement.
💙 Body
Daily training (non-negotiable) — Not for aesthetics — for the psychological edge. Resilience in the body translates to resilience in the mind.
Highly controlled diet — Whole foods, high protein. Food as fuel, not comfort.
✨ Soul
Engineered intellectual friction — Regular debate nights. Sought out people with different backgrounds, beliefs, politics.
Strategic environmental upgrades — Cutting ties with habits and people that reinforced the old version. Conscious time allocation.
Protected thinking time — Daily. No phone. No noise. No passive consumption.
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60-min call + 30-day messaging
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What's included
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Calendly link sent on payment — pick your time
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Ellen responds within 24 hours, every day
How the bundle works
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Book your call whenever you're ready. Start messaging immediately — no need to wait for the call first.
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🔒 Private and anonymous. No personal numbers shared. Your call is one-to-one, your messages stay between you and Ellen.
Ellen's context — read before your call
GriefSenior leadership Loss of motherLegacyEmotions at work
Prepare for your call
Key insights from her journey
Grieving in a high-performance role — she understands the pressure to function while falling apart inside.
Somatic work (Rolfing) was where healing started — grief lived in her body before it lived in words.
Channeling loss into a legacy project — not as a bypass, but as a form of continuation and meaning.
Still in progress — she won't give you a tidy resolution. She'll give you honest company instead.
🧠 Mind
Finding the Words by Colin Campbell — The book that finally gave her language for what grief actually feels like. She's given it to everyone she knows who has lost someone.
Grief counselor — emotions at work — Not just processing the loss. Specifically working on how grief shows up in professional settings. Grief doesn't clock out.
Legacy project — her mother's company — The cookware company wasn't just a business idea — it was her mother's dream. Making it real became a way of grieving with purpose.
💙 Body
Exercise — showing up even when she didn't want to — Not training for anything. Just moving. The one part of the day that wasn't about the grief or the company.
Cutting out sweets — Noticing the coping patterns. Not about weight — about making a more conscious choice.
✨ Soul
Rolfing — Grief lived in her body before it lived in words. Gave her nervous system a container when she couldn't find one anywhere else.
Cooking her mother's recipes — The kitchen is where she feels closest to her. Making her recipes, using her pots, cooking for people her mother loved.
Letting grief have its place — Suppressing grief at work just meant it leaked out sideways. Giving it space intentionally meant it didn't ambush her.
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